Weddings are a ceremonial event that brings both friends and family together to celebrate the union of two people.
This formal event is where everybody is playing dressed to impress, although we don’t want to be extravagant with our clothes choices. Which is why a pair of cufflinks is the subtle but refined addition you need to add to your wedding suit’s attire. Presentation matters, small details can make a big difference, and cufflinks offer a simple way to elevate a suit with elegance and personality.
Respect and Appearance
The Groom
As the Groom, on your wedding day, it is deemed to be essential for you to look your best. Cufflinks are a great way to show class and formality at your own wedding.
The Groomsmen
The groomsmen should also wear cufflinks, ideally in a style similar to the groom’s, to create a coordinated look in photos. These cufflinks are often given to the groomsmen by the bride or groom before the date of the wedding and are seen as a lasting keepsake.
The Guests
As a male guest attending a wedding, it is seen as respectful for them to wear a pair of cufflinks. It is seen as respectful as you are seen to understand the importance of the ceremony and that you have dressed accordingly.
The Colour-Scheme Matters
Most traditional weddings will have a running colour scheme, quite common schemes are cream, forest green, and light blue. To go with the theme of the wedding, it’s good to know what cufflink to go for. Benkes offers a variety of cufflinks. For colour-coordinated weddings we encourage an enamelled pair, if the colour in mind isn’t an option we also offer sterling silver or gold cufflinks which remain as an elegant and neutral option that would work with any suit.
When choosing cufflinks for a wedding, it is important to aim for a balance rather than an overstatement. A well-chosen pair should complement the suit, shirt, and overall colour palette without drawing too much attention away from the rest of the look, therefore making sterling silver or gold a reliable choice for both traditional and modern wedding styles.
Bespoke Keepsakes
For weddings, it is seen as tradition for the bride or groom to gift something special to the groomsmen. It shows them the importance of them stepping up to the part and supporting the couple and effort they have made on their wedding day.
To make this moment more special, Benkes offers bespoke cufflinks. These cufflinks can create an emotional keepsake that one day allows the groomsmen to look back on this very day cherishing memories of loved ones and warm-hearted moments made on the bride and groom’s wedding day.
An example of bespoke cufflinks for a wedding ceremony would be the couple’s initials or date of the wedding engraved on the cufflinks.
Matching cufflinks also help the groomsmen feel like a valued part of the wedding party, while adding a smart and polished finishing touch to their outfits.
Other Events
Funeral
At a formal event such as a funeral, it isn’t considered disrespectful to wear a pair of cufflinks, if it doesn’t draw too much attention. This means that enamelled cufflinks would not be the best cufflink for this event. Sterling silver would be the best recommendation, as it is subtle but shows the importance of this event through a polished and refined appearance.
Black Tie and Gala Events
This is where the 18ct Gold and Chain-Link styles truly shine. Formal occasions demand a higher level of finish. Here, the symmetry of a chain-link ensures that your hardware is visible from every angle, complementing the crisp lines of a tuxedo.
The Professional Boardroom
In high-stakes business environments, the goal is understated authority. A sterling silver link with a classic engine-turned pattern or a simple geometric shape is ideal. It signals attention to detail without distracting from the conversation.
The Modern Smart-Casual
For the weekend or a creative office, a ‘House Enamelled’ link provides a splash of personality. Pairing a navy blazer with a sky-blue enamelled cufflink allows for a touch of individual flair that remains grounded in classic style.
Timeless Memories
Cufflinks are a timeless accessory that adds elegance and personality to any formal occasion, especially weddings. Whether worn by the groom, groomsmen or guests, they help create a refined and coordinated look whilst reflecting the importance of the event.
The bespoke cufflinks will forever be seen as a great gift to the groomsmen and a spectacular memory shared amongst family and friends.